The difference between men and women summed up in one conversation between yours truly and fabulous husband.

Me: If we're staying for more than five years, I'd like to replace the vanity in the bathroom with something lower profile and better wearing.

FH: I'd like to put in a really nice N scale model rail road, with panels inside the tunnels so you can access derailments from under the train table.

Yup. Right there, the difference.